Skammer mig så'n... :(

Jeg har desværre ingen gode råd. Det er en grum følelse men Gud hvor jeg kender den grimme lille fyr på din skulder 

vores søn tog 3 år at lave , og jeg havde sku os svært ved at blive ved med at juble på andres vejne 

Og  Skal du fanden galme os ha med !! 

Jeg vil  For at det snart må lykkedes for jer 

Du skal ikke skamme dig over dine følelser, de er ganske normale

Jeg tror dog at det er vigtigt at man stadig i det mindste prøver at glæde sig på andres vegne, og er ked af det når man kommer hjem.

Vi oplevede et par gange at der var nogen der næsten ikke turde fortælle at de var blevet gravide, fordi de ikke ville gøre os kede af det, men det er jo heller ikke særlig fedt. Det er jo ikke deres skyld at vi har svært ved at få børn.

Men sørg for at få grædt ud, ud hvis følelserne tager overhånd

Difficult Moments

Heard the news that she’s expecting, a baby in late spring,
Tried my best to look happy and not show my suffering.
Don’t want her to feel funny, and put a wall between
Two friends then become distance, for myself this I have seen.

Got the shower invitation in the mail today,
Thinking of some fresh excuses that I have to do that day.
Didn’t used to be this bad, but lately it’s so hard
Wish I just could send a gift, along with a nice card.

Heard the phone ring half past six, knew who it would be
She was going into labor, and wanted him to now phone me.
Wipe a tear and put my clothes on, hurry out the door
For I know from where that tear came, there will certainly be more.

Getting close it won’t be long now, baby’s coming soon
Hope that she will understand, why I now must leave the room.
On bended knee I pray to God to help me to get through,
As in the past, He always has, I know He will now too.

~Susan Reardon